
It's A New Day
on the Farm in Elkinsville
by Bob Cross
It's morning time on the farm. "Time to rise and shine"famous
words of reveille echoed by my Mom to bring me out of a comforting
sleep and to prepare me for the new day at hand.
It disturbed me because for the most part I didn't harbor
much enthusiasm to face this new day. In the winter there was
no incentive to leave my warm cocoon of covers and touch the
cold floors in our house. With only a potbelly stove for heat
and no insulation in the walls of the house, sometimes it seemed
as cold inside as it was outside. Who in their right mind would
be enthusiastic and fired up about getting out of bed
in this house?
When I was a boy the "chores" also greeted me daily
in the early morning hours before school. One of my jobs was
to greet our cow Betsy and begin the process of cajoling and
convincing her that she was happy to see me and that it was okay
if I sat down and squeezed her teats. I persuaded her to release
the milk her little factory had been manufacturing while we all
slept. Betsy did not give up anything without a tussle and was
always very confrontational from the start. By her attitude she
put it this way, "If you want it take it but don't expect
a lot of cooperation from me. You're on my turf young man and
please don't get too presumptuous about my cooperating."
Many times, as a source of arrogance, Betsy would swing her tail
and catch me at about the neck level with a slap while twisting
her head around at me to see if I got the message. If she experienced
a higher level of frustration she would simply raise her back
foot and attempt to put it in the milk bucket and spill all the
milk. She was telling me if I thought I could do better I should
go to the grocery, get some milk already bottled and quit hanging
around to put the squeeze on her.
Confronting a cow with an attitude was only one of my morning
chores.
I also had the pleasure and privilege of slopping the hogs
in the early morning hours. The hogs showed their appreciation
during feeding time. One thing I admire about hogs is that they
are not prima donnas when it comes to eating. From day old bread
and day old donuts to left over watermelon rinds and vegetable
peelings, every morsel is consumed. You could tell from the level
of grunting noises that the hogs enjoyed the feed trough. Hogs
are famous for cleaning their troughs and not having any leftovers.
Feeding the horses, sheep, and chickens rounded out the morning
assault on my time.
After chores I had to rush in, eat breakfast, gather up my
schoolbooks, and wait for the school bus to arrive. Country breakfast
at our house was always good and ranged from fried eggs with
smoke-cured bacon, biscuits, on occasion fried potatoes, and
sorghum molasses. There was never a lack of gratitude around
our breakfast table. The only disconcerting part of breakfast
was that the older kids always wanted to carve out a bigger portion
for themselves. It was advantageous to be quick to get your share.
If challenged you had to be prepared to stand your ground. Our
house was a democracyit was one for all and all for onebut
being mild-mannered without speaking up meant you missed the
fun and the food.
The rigorous morning on the farm prepared us for the tasks
at school. Teachers in my one-room schools hardly ever prescribed
homeworkwhich suited me just fine. In one-room schools,
from the first grade level until seventh grade, I learned a lot
by the absorption method. While all classes were taught in the
same room it was clear that repetition and interaction between
all grade levels enhanced learning.
But getting back to chores. Being one of nine kids and the
youngest of four brothers, my chore education was taught at an
accelerated pace. I realized the validity of an old axiom (source
of which I am not clear) that the ___ flows down hill and when
you are at the bottom expect a generous dose. But, on balance,
our family structure was such that everyone seemed to get a fair
amount of work done and shared in the responsibilities when the
occasion called for their participation.
The one thing we could always depend on day after day was
that Mom and Dad, our parents and role models, would always do
their part. As our responsibilities grew over the years so did
our realization and appreciation of our parents' sacrifices.
Farm life provided the setting for many life lessons and for
character development.
I recalled those memories from growing up on a farm near Elkinsville,
Indiana, located in southwestern Brown Countya special
place in rural America. There was something special about our
lifestyle there although at times it could be very difficult
and required a lot of patience.
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